“We definitely feel like much more of a partnership in our faith.”
Mike and Sarah completed the Marriage Course in 2025, read how it impacted their relationship.
Mike & Sarah attended our Marriage Course in 2025.
What initially drew you to the Marriage Course, and what were your expectations before starting?
We had been married for 7 years when we did the course, and for us it felt like we weren't as actively working on our marriage as we could be - life gets busy, and it had been put on the backburner. We had friends who had done the course and they recommended it, so we thought we'd give it a go! We understood the structure of each evening, but other than that we had no preconceived ideas as to what to expect.
Have you noticed any practical changes in how you communicate or resolve conflict?
We've learned how to reduce our arguments through our improved communication. Through the course, we learned how to allow the other to have space to fully communicate their feelings without feeling pressure, judgement or interruption. This led us to a better understanding of one another at an emotional level, which in itself has deepened our connection to one another, ultimately creating a positive feedback loop, meaning we have less disagreement and conflict!
How has the course influenced your spiritual journey as a couple?
In many ways we are very different people, and this is no different in the way we engage with our faith. This had led to us spiritually doing things 'on our own' despite being married. In having faith as a part of this marriage course, it has naturally helped us to bring that element into our communication, making it much easier for both of us to hear the other in the way that they engage with God and the Bible. Now we definitely feel like much more of a partnership in our faith.
What would you say to couples who are considering the course but aren’t sure if it’s right for them?
This course provides a safe space to talk about some of the major things that impact marriage in a way that feels non-judgemental and non-pushy. The conversations and stories shared in the course are relatable, helpful and applicable to any marriage, no matter the stage or state. For us, it enabled us to feel like we had a weekly date night to get to know each other again.
If you could give advice to a couple about to start the course, what would it be?
Our advice is that you commit to the whole thing. Life is busy, and unexpected things happen, but committing to the whole course really made a difference in how much we benefited from it. Having the consistency of each week created a rhythm that helped us to open up, get comfortable and practice the things we had learned. As such, do everything you can to make it a priority. Use the church to help you - that's what we're here for!