Truth Be Told: Connecting Generations
We are made to live in community, and our partnership with Truth Be Told (TBT) is a great example of this. TBT connects generations through children’s rhyme and story time sessions with older adults. This brings joy and creates a sense of belonging, improving mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being for everyone involved.
Every fortnight, our TBT group gathers at Avon Cliff Care Home. On Tuesdays, another TBT group meets at the Citygate Centre, welcoming ladies and children for whom English is not their first language, as well as those who want to extend love and friendship.
Yes, these sessions are filled with songs, nursery rhymes, and interactive stories. But they are so much more. They create spaces where people of all ages come together, share smiles, and remember that they are seen, heard, and valued. As one of our TBT leaders reflects: “I serve here because I love stories and the deep truths that can be shared through them, truths that may be harder to convey in regular conversation.”
The impact of TBT is best captured by the voices of those who experience it firsthand. Judy P., a resident at Avon Cliff Care Home, shares, “TBT reminds me of my childhood. I grew up in a Christian family, and it is lovely to see little ones being brought up in the faith.” Judy’s words reflect the way these sessions awaken cherished memories and remind participants of shared traditions.
For Sylvia W., another resident, the visits bring pure delight: “I am delighted every time they visit.” The presence of young children, with their laughter and boundless energy, has a way of brightening the room and lifting spirits. Dotty D. adds, “It makes me feel very happy, and the children are very amusing.” These moments of connection are what TBT is all about.
Sheila K. highlights another beautiful aspect: “I think it’s lovely to see the children grow and learn.”
One of the most touching stories from Avon Cliff Care Home is about the bond between a 2-year-old girl and a resident who is over 90 years her senior. The little girl would sit next to the resident, sharing books and giggles. On a week when the resident had missed the session and was feeling down, the child made a special visit to her with a book in hand, lighting up her day.
TBT has also helped nurture deeper ties between our church and the care home. During the Love BCP day, a group from the church visited the care home to chat with residents, sing hymns, and share reflections. We look forward to doing this again in December, when families from TBT will join us for a short carol service and fellowship. Additionally, some residents have visited our Arch coffee house, where one visit was so popular that another group came down later the same day!
TBT is not only for care home residents but also for the community at large. Our Citygate Centre group offers a welcoming space for women of all backgrounds—whether they are learning English or simply seeking friendship and support. As part of this group, participants can enjoy an atmosphere filled with warmth and acceptance.
On Tuesdays, the bonds formed in our TBT group have led to rich connections. One TBT group leader recalls being invited to an ICN student end-of-year party, complete with dishes from around the world, and even to a Middle Eastern engagement party—a testament to the friendships nurtured through this initiative.
Everyone needs someone to spend time with, someone who listens, and someone who shows they care and TBT aims to do just that! One participant summed it up perfectly: during TBT, they can “just enjoy and forget about all their cares, worries, and stresses for a while.”
Do you love making someone smile and brightening their day? Then join us at TBT, and you’ll discover that in trying to brighten someone else’s day, your own heart will be uplifted in return.
By Karen Priest
